The #1 problem in any relationship, regardless of what kind of relationship it is, whether it is with SELF, or a spouse/partner, a co-worker/boss, a child/teenager, your dog/cat or any other pet for that matter, is the fact that you don’t like what the other does or does not do; in other words, their performance. You are most likely in negative A.R. and judging or criticizing their performance, which is not to your satisfaction. You have expectations on their performance, and unmet expectations are the greatest source of problems in relationships. This may be extremely selfish, because you are stuck in your world and have very little regard for their world. Inner Dialogue is a major part of this concept. Your whole outlook is directed by your Inne…